Our Process

At UNCOMMON DIVORCE, we strongly believe that we must first help our clients spiritually heal and reframe the way they think of the pending divorce before we can move onto the financial component. This cannot be emphasized enough.

Being emotional or angry when making decisions is counter-productive to your finances and your divorce and can have long-lasting effects for you, your children, and your future co-parenting.

In “common” divorce cases, it works quite the opposite. The attorneys fuel and encourage negative emotions in order to be on the offense and often use scorched earth tactics.

What makes us different at UNCOMMON DIVORCE is that we do not charge an hourly rate. As a result, we sit on the same side of the table as our clients. We are incentivized to create a divorce solution agreeable to both parties in a timely manner.

With outrageous hourly rates that the divorce attorneys command, the broken system of the “common” divorce absolutely incentivizes them and the experts to put you and your spouse through years of messy litigation and “back and forth” with the opposing side before settling your case.

For many attorneys, judges, and forensic accountants, these professionals have absolutely no attachment to your outcome. Your divorce and your future are merely a transaction.

UNCOMMON DIVORCE is committed to coaching the spouses at the emotional level so that we have adults sitting at the table when it's time to discuss finances and the children.

We work with our clients to reframe the situation in a positive light.

Take the lessons and move on for the better good.

See things from the other person’s perspective as well.

With UNCOMMON DIVORCE’s financial expertise, we then all work together to craft a healthy and stable financial future for each spouse.